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NAME: Roger NolanI see adverts appearing already for a concert by Ralph McTell at the Albert Hall on 16 May 2016. Quite a step up from the school refectory. It seems the streets of London really are paved with gold.
I was very surprised to see [in reply 5 above] that Ralph McTell appeared at the school refectory in the late sixties. Despite being a fan and follower of the man, I don't think I would have gone there to see him. Too many memories of Mrs Bullas and the food she was in charge of - gristly, fatty meat and rock hard bread pudding, for example. I survived on school custard and mashed potatoes mainly. I first saw Ralph McTell at the Black Bull in Whetstone which has now been demolished. Also saw him at the Salisbury in High Barnet which I believe was demolished to make way for a Waitrose supermarket. Ralph has written, recorded and performed hundreds of fantastic songs and I have seen him in many different venues including Leamington Spa for his silver anniversary concert tour, Theatre Royal Drury Lane for his 70th birthday concert where I sat next to Nerys Hughes (she of Alphabet Zoo fame!). Indeed, I have tickets for his forthcoming concert at the Albert Hall this year, where he has appeared before!
Sad to hear that the Black Bull is no more, Stafford (see my rather tenuous connection with it here). I was very fed up when the Salisbury was demolished. I used to go there for Barnet Jazz Club sessions, after the club lost its Assembly Rooms venue in Union Street. The irony is that Waitrose quite soon aferwards moved to its present site in The Spires. Even worse (and earlier than} the destruction of the Salisbury was that incredible act of vandalism, the demolition of the mediaeval Star Inn, a few doors down from the Salisbury. Can't remember what '60s monstrosity replaced it.
I too feel sad to hear about the demolition of The Black Bull in Whetstone. I note too from "The Lost Pubs" website that other pubs in the vicinity are now also lost. In the High Road the Green Man is now used as a tyre centre and also in the High Road the Bull and Butcher is now a bar called iBar. The Blue Anchor and The Hand and Flower are also lost. Just a tad away The Rising Sun, formerly at 248 Oakleigh Road North, is now a Tesco Metro and The Woodman is also gone. The Griffin, The 3 Horseshoes and The New Inn would appear to still be there. I did work at BRS HQ at Northway House in Whetstone for over 6 years from 1971 to 1977, when I was not travelling round the country for them as Financial Planning Manager, and remember many of these well, especially The Black Bull. I should like at some time to revisit the area to see the changes. I especially remember the restaurant (by Totteridge & Whetstone station) where I enjoyed many splendid lunches. If that was the The Waiting Room Jas, it's still there!
"I should like at some time to revisit the area [Whetstone] to see the changes" says James. As a Totteridge boy, I knew Whetstone well, when small accompanying my mother at least twice a week to visit some five shops simply to buy food (as one did), and later catching trolley buses to Barnet, as a change from the tube. I formed quite an attachment to the less well known bits, such as humble Victorian houses built of yellowy brown London stock brick which still survived, Redfe(a)rns and GLS radio repair shops and Stocks' secondhand furniture shop on the same side of the road as the Bull and Butcher and more or less opposite the Green Man Garage. Unlike James, I have no desire to revisit. I'd only be saddened by the changes. I remember talking to an old lady in South London some forty years ago, who told me that she was brought up in Turners Hill, Sussex and, three quarters of a century later, never went to sleep without thinking about the place . "Oh, I know Turners Hill", I piped up, pleased to be able to join in. I was told in no uncertain terms that she didn't want to hear the slightest morsel of news about the present day Turners Hill. I thought her a bit eccentric, but now I perfectly understand ...
In regard to the restaurant/café in Totteridge Lane the one I mentioned is a predecessor to The Waiting Room, which is not surprising as I am talking about 38 years ago and more. I am always a bit double minded in regard to whether to call a place a cafe or a restaurant. The one I used to go to charged lunch time cafe prices but served soups, main course and deserts and was definitely a cut above greasy spoon types. I was always asked if I wanted custard or ice cream with their tasty cherry pie and I always opted for both ice cream and custard. On two different occasions some famous soccer players ate there. The Waiting Room would appear to have more a café menu but I am intrigued as to what posh egg and chips consists of. It looks worth popping in to, if visiting around there and I usually like chatting with mother and daughter duos running places. Often the cafes are to a good standard. Maybe othere have visited and could report.
I wonder if the café (replies 8 and 10) was there in the sixties, when I was still living in Totteridge. One of the many things that puzzled me as a small boy was a notice on a wall or on an out-building at T&W station. It read 'Coal Of ice'. I assumed this to be some weird fuel, and felt rather let down when demystification came. Compare and contrast with 'Trespassers w', or - coming almost up to date - 'Dai y Mirror'.